The leaf that looked like a fish ~ From a Nomad’s diary
Circa 1994:
The first time she
stepped into the chilled bluish green chlorinated water of the huge swimming
pool of GNFC Complex, Bharuch was in the year 1994, when she was about 9 yrs
old. The pool had a netted partition that demarcated the baby pool from the
actual swimming pool. For her, who never had entered water in her life of 9
years, it was a moment of sheer fear clubbed with awe and thrill. She had faced
many such occasions where she had felt both in the same instant. One of which,
was seeing a baby snake slide by in the porch of her home. And now she entered
slowly in the baby pool as instructed by her father. It was only after a while, she understood the
concept of baby pool, which was least to say, as deep as an adult’s finger. When she saw the elder kids swim
effortlessly on the other side, the question that pounded her constantly was ,”why
can’t I?”. After a couple of days of
having observed people enjoy their laps, she took the plunge. While her father
was busy swimming in the deep waters, she jumped from the baby pool into the
actual swimming pool, crossing over the netted partition. The next minute, she
knew that swimming was no child’s play. It was an art. It was a technique. It
was a lesson. And, the first lesson she learnt was, “If you do not swim, you
drown”. As she thought she was on the verge of entering the other world with
a lot of water having entered her mouth and nose and then, someone pulled her
out gently. After coughing out all the chlorinated water, she looked softly at
her anxious father who she thought, was going to reprimand her for her blatant display of stupidity. However he surprised her as always, “You want to learn!
That is a good thing! I will talk to the coach tomorrow. But you have to be
receptive and obedient. The coach is strict. OK?” Those words removed all her
fears about water. And she knew, she was going to learn.
Present Day, 2014:
She remembered this
incident on this day as she saw her almost three year old son trying to swim
with the arm floats tightly wrapped around his little biceps. She never learned
swimming with a float. Her coach was from old school, where floats of any kind
were a big NO. She remembered how he had kept her head under the water till she
learnt to flap her hands and paddle her feet simultaneously. The first time,
when she was asked to dive from the diving board, she almost staggered. And
then, she was picked like a doll and hurled into the water. There was no time
for fear to grow. She realized that it was a different time then. With no coach
for her son, she decided to teach her son with the arm floats. And then, the
challenge began.
She: “Hey! Paddle your
feet! Flap your arms!”
Son: “No mama! I will
drown!”
She: “No! You won’t! I
won’t let you! And these teddy floats won’t let you, either!”
Son: “Mama! Please
hold my hands”
And then, suddenly he
yelled, “Fish!! Fish!!”
She turned around to
see a big brown leaf floating in the waters. For a second, she was tempted to
correct him. It was not a fish. It was just a leaf. But she held her horses. Today
was not the day to correct him. And then, she smiled.
She: “Hey see, there
is a fish! Want to catch it with your hands! Go!”
Son: “Yes! Yes! I am
going to catch it!”
Saying this, he
paddled hard, flapping his arms vigorously, in the process deflating one side
of his right arm float. Even as the realization eluded his attention, his focus
gained over and he caught hold of the leaf and exclaimed delightfully,
“See
mama! I caught a fish that looks like a leaf”
She smiled as she swam
towards him. She saw the leaf and then corrected her son, “Well, my munchkin!
It is the other way round. It is a leaf that looks like a fish!”
Yes, the leaf that
looked like a fish!
Labels: My son and I
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